Irrelavant Friends

I wonder just how many people realise that they are quite irrelavant. Not just to the world, or country because you just a nobody - like another ant going about its businiess in this big wide busy buzzing world. Thats fine because hey, as long as you truly matter to your friends and family and co-workers...who cares right? Not everyone can or aspires to big things or to be a somebody.

But being an irrelavant friend??! What on earth is that supposed to be? Heck people are probably wondering whats up with me right now. Im bound to get questions from whoever cares and can be bothered to read my blog occasionnaly(if there are even such people anymore - a consequence of not updating my blog)

Before I continue. No i dont want such questions. Youd just piss me off. If there was something wrong with me, I douldnt tell you because you asked me. Id tell you in my own time if I felt like talking to you. Chances are im not interested in talking about anything that bothers me to you - ie: you are an irrelavant friend.

Im not sure which is worse, having untrue friends, or having irrelavant friends. With untrue friends, well their not really your friends anyway....Theyd be the first people out the door the momement you cease to be an asset and are in a spot of REAL trouble.

Ok what am I saying! Having untrue friends is B-A-D! Its probably the worst thing to trust someone very much, only to have them betray you and scoot in the moment of your greatest need.

But most of us dont have untrue friends (I hope! - choi! pantang! touchwood and whatever other mumbo-jumbo the supersticious lot yell out the moment something bad or unlucky is uttered) Having irrelavant friends is well.... i suppose its up to the individual to decide what it is.

The thing is about irrelaveent friends is that...they dont actually matter or make much of a difference when your in need. Not because they dont want to help you or they run away. Im sure they mean well and will sympathise with you if your down. But really? they are irrelavan.

Hmm i bet im not making much sense am I? No im probably not. Think of it this way then. They are friends who you hang out with and have fun. You may or may not get close to them, but chances are your not going to get very close.

You cant really depend on them help you out when your down, because you woud'nt really want to talk to them about it, and you'd rather not go through the hassle of their comments or sympathies. At times when you need someone, its not that they wont be there for you, but rather that it dosent matter if they are there or not. Maybe youd rather they wernt there.

You cant trust to open up too much with them, and thus you cant really depend on them. They are the decorative dummy pillars that hold no weight. Pretty but strcturally irrelavant.

So whats the point of this rant??
*shrugs* Dont Know!

~Baron Out~